Wedding 101 and Do It Yourself Wedding Planning

How did I do it?

It was simple: Hardwork

Well I guess that does not sound simple at all. I lost 13 lbs from February of this year. There were lots of running involved, a lot of pain but I'm glad to say that there was no deprivation. I ate enough. I ate what I needed to take with no excess eating involved.

I always advice Brides of this, after the proposal. Work-out.

Exercising a month before the wedding will not work. So start early! 

Having a Business now a days has its challenges. How you can become unique, how you can catch the attention of your customers and how you can have loyal customers.

A friend of mine told me:

There is nothing I can say positively of my boyfriend.

Is that even normal? Being someone who you can't think of a positive thing to do. Wala akong nasabi.
Then another friend said, Then why are you still with him?

Ladies and Gents, every person has a positive. Do you agree. Lahat tayo. We may not be perfect.
But we are God's creation. ^ ^. We value positively.

But who am I to attack my friend or the boyfriend. I don't know the entire reason behind it.
But here are my controversial hypothesis. Which I have not told. My friend is confuse about the relationship
at the moment. Unsure of where it will go.

Please let us help my anonymous friend... Your comments will be read by her.

Hypothesis #1. Perfectionism

               Senator Miriam Defensor is one of my respected public servants. I remember watching
her Maalaala mo Kaya in ABS-CBN years ago. Her mom was so strict. If she didn't get an exam perfectly she kneels in rock salt for long hours. For every mistake she is punished. I feel for her. But the story had a good turn around, she became very successful.

"I feel like he doesn't make much time for me" 

"I want to get married and he doesn't have any plans"

"He is not sweet. I wish my boyfriend was as sweet and caring as my best friend's boyfriend"

He doesn't know what I want.

He always starts a fight when he disappoints me

and he missed to say he loves me back. 

          If you have ever felt this way. I did too! Probably your mom also had and so did your friends. 
Why is that? What is so difficult in realizing that hey I'm not so hard to please. I'm very very understanding.

#1. Accept that your boyfriend is not Superman. 

        He is human. And so are you.

It would be great to have the real Superman fly us around the world. But our boyfriend/husbands doesn't come with capes and underwear outside their pants. (Good thing!) When you just met him, he seems perfect yes. But time goes by and you realize he is so, and so and so. And so what! You love him and he comes with flaws and not capes. He cannot do everything for you. But he can love you enough, make you feel special and be the partner where God love passes through. 

My Transformation as a Fiance