What makes a good man good.

I had a Wedding and Events Seminar last week.

         And there was this one guy in the group! In the whole bunch of wedding he came to the seminar so he could help out his bride plan their wedding and also so he could understand better of how much women feel about wedding planning.

(Yeap, I was pretty sure he was a guy. And he was also there alone. Nope, he was not lost or anything.)

Clearly I am not the person to talk about it but this is an article for those brides with hesitations. If this is really the one they want to marry. And no other person can answer that but yourself.

But let me calm your mind and revert you to a perspective. As women we were trained by society and promised by our parents the best. And when we get our guys we also expect the best for them. But frankly speaking these men are just human just like us. On their imperfect state and admirable personalities. Just like us. Just like you and me.

So if your groom to be has done something irritating today remind yourself that we are all human and who are we not to forgive. Give the man a chance and a little credit. Remind yourself of his good traits. Does he make you happy and is he the one you want to wake up with every morning for the rest of your life. Then if so, lets be realistic ladies. Let's not give high expectations.

However, I do want to remind future brides that this situation would be different if a man is into abusive words or actions. If the man is a womanizer and so on. Then don't hesitate to get out of the situation ask for help from family, friends or authorities.

Nonetheless here is a simple prayer I have for you:

I pray to God for the men to step up and for us ladies to allow them step up. God is gracious and good. We are made differently and we are made to compliment. Its not easy to accept disagreements, but I pray that we all be able to work it out. As a couple, may we find teamwork and as a woman of that Godly relationship may we embrace our roles. May we be a good helper too. May we be able to support our men in their work challenges. And may we speak kind words to encourage them. May we allow them to be the good man God wants them to be. And may we not diminish them of what they do. May God bless us all to have a kin eyesight to see what we can do to bless our partner and not a judging eye who sees all faults. May we be blessed to encourage our sons to be a good man too, that in the future they may lead good families. Amen and Amen... All this for Gods greater glory and the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.